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The use of how to use dildo can open new vistas for a lot of couples. For males, cock rings, imitation vaginas and anal plugs are some of the more common items in this category, but the male chastity device also has many adherents. Used with proper awareness of penis care, men chastity device provides men having an opportunity to expand their sexual horizons.



The facts?

Simply put, a male chastity device is an instrument which prevents a man from having the capacity to utilize his penis in a sexual manner. Including both partner-based sex and masturbation.

Typically, the male chastity device is a "cage" which inserts over either exactly the penis or higher the penis and balls. These devices may be made of metal, rubber, silicone, or any other substance. It could be fairly solid, covering a lot of the penis and/or balls, or it might be more "skeletal" anyway and have some open gaps inside it. There is a slit in the end of the device in order that a man may urinate with it.

When wearing the chastity device, the guy (or another person) is not able to stroke and stimulate male organ, minimizing the potential of erections. Furthermore, the device was created with little "wiggle room," to ensure that when a non-manually-stimulated erection occurs, it has less room to develop and so has a tendency to soften rather quickly.

What is the appeal?

These devices is typically made to be locked, so that the male wearing it is unable to remove it. Men who enjoy wearing chastity tools are engaging in a form of orgasm control and/or orgasm denial.

In theory, a man wears a chastity device to which his partner has got the key. The idea is to wear these devices for extended amounts of time, often a few days. During this time, the person is not able to fondle himself or be fondled. When he does become aroused, he is unable to masturbate or participate in other forms of sex, in order that he may experience frustration. Often, the partner comments upon this in a manner which demonstrates her/his dominant role within the relationship - they now effectively "owns" the man's penis and is also able to select how long he or she must undergo sexual frustration before being allowed relief. Men that enjoy submissive play could find this tremendously exciting.

Not always so long

In reality, many couples use the chastity device for much shorter periods of time - usually only a few hours, role playing a dominant-submissive role however with an end in clear sight. This allows a man to indulge a wish for submission without losing total control. This can also be intensely erotic for many men.

There are some good reasons for limiting just how long one spends in the chastity device. If the device will not fit correctly, it may cause the penis being raw and sore, which can lead to some de-sensitization. A too-tight device may also cut off circulation or pinch skin in a painful manner. Additionally, many doctors feel that using such a device for over a few hours at a time has the potential to do long term-damage. However, many men who use one appropriately and for short amounts of time find that their orgasms when released are exceptionally vibrant.